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Coaching can fuel the courage to step out beyond the comfortable and familiar, can help people learn from their experience and can literally and metaphorically increase and help fulfill a person’s potential.
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Get comfortable with silence… Bite your tongue, and don’t fill the silence. I know it will be uncomfortable, and I know it creates space for learning and insight.
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Fueled by emotion, our story about what the feedback says about us grows so large and damning that we are overwhelmed by it. Learning is the least of our worries; we’re just trying to survive.
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While some of us do it naturally, we can all learn to hold our identity in ways that make us more resilient.
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No one is perfect…, it’s better not to believe you are – …because it makes it harder for you learn from feedback.
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Growth identity folks aren’t thrown by the contradiction and are motivated to seek accurate information in order to adjust and learn.
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…praising our kids for their intelligence is, surprisingly, counterproductive to their learning. We’re better off extolling their effort…
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The ability to turn down or turn away feedback is critical to healthy relationships and lifelong learning.
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…the ability to learn from feedback is what will shape your future most.
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…coaching your coach – discussing the process of what helps you and why – is one of the most powerful ways to accelerate your learning.
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