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Capacity means having the time as well as the mental, physical, and emotional capacity to do a job well.
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100 |
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…three pillars give life integrity: physical security, material prosperity, and emotional well-being.
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44 |
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FEELING stands for Facts, Emotions, Encouragement, Learning, Implications, and New Goals.
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175 |
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When it comes to dealing with underperformance, if our commitment is to people’s learning, the more emotional charge there might be, the more essential it is to use a self-directed approach.
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214 |
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When people underperform, venting your emotions as a leader is unlikely to do anything to improve their performance.
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215 |
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…it’s OK to let someone experience their feelings. You don’t have to fix it.
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20 |
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Positive thinking is often a Band-Aid on a bullet wound. Instead of helping, it leads to emotional suppression, which is… ineffective, taxing, and maladaptive.
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24 |
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If we cut all negative people or experiences out of our life, we will end up alone and emotionally wounded.
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28 |
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Toxic positivity increases feelings of shame, inadequacy, and isolation. It might originate from good intentions, but it doesn’t do us any favors.
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111 |
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It’s so hard to connect when we feel isolated and like we’re the only one experiencing something.
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113 |