Book Titles

Influence
The Psychology of Influence

By Robert Cialdini

Year Published: 2021
ISBN-13: 978-0-06-293765-0
Categories: Influence, Persuasion, Psychology

152 Quotes Found

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Influence:

…after accepting a gift, customers are willing to purchase products and agree to requests they would have otherwise declined.

32

Influence:

Elected and appointed officials often see themselves as immune to the rules that apply to rest of us – parking regulations and the like.

36

Influence:

…customizing a gift to a recipient’s preferences, customizing it to the recipient’s current needs can also supercharge the gift’s impact.

42

Influence:

…there’s a strong cultural pressure to reciprocate a gift, even an unwanted one, but there is no such pressure to purchase an unwanted commercial product.

46

Influence:

Most of us find it highly disagreeable to be in a state of obligation. It weighs heavily on us and demands to be removed.

48

Influence:

A person who violates the reciprocity rule by accepting without attempting to return the good acts of others is disliked by the social group.

49

Influence:

…it is not so puzzling that in the name of reciprocity, we often give back more than we have received.

50

Influence:

…with the [reciprocity] rule in effect, we can feel safe making the first sacrifice to our partner, who is obligated to offer a return sacrifice.

53

Influence:

It is in the interest of any human group to have its members working together toward the achievement of common goals.

53

Influence:

The truly gifted negotiator… is one whose initial position is exaggerated enough to allow for a series of small reciprocal concessions and counteroffers that will yield a desirable final offer from the opponent.

56