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It takes time for givers to build goodwill and trust, but eventually, they establish reputations and relationships that enhance their success.
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Teams depend on givers to share information, volunteer for unpopular tasks, and provide help.
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The fear of being judged as weak or naïve prevents many people from operating like givers at work.
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…networks come with three major advantages: private information, diverse skills, and power.
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Give and Take:
By developing a strong network, people can gain invaluable access to knowledge, expertise, and influence.
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Give and Take:
Extensive research demonstrates that people with rich networks achieve higher performance ratings, get promoted faster, and earn more money.
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…while givers and takers may have equally large networks, givers are able to produce far more lasting value through their networks…
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Give and Take:
When takers deal with powerful people, they become convincing fakers. Takers want to be admired by influential superiors, so they go out of their way to charm and flatter.
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Give and Take:
When kissing up, takers are often good fakers.
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Although takers tend to be dominant and controlling with subordinates, they’re surprisingly submissive and deferential toward superiors.
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