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The bad news is that you are in fact destined to keep falling into the Drama Triangle for the rest of your life.
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…use the phrase ‘Out of curiosity.’ What this does is shift the question from perhaps coming across as an inquisition to being a more noble inquiry.
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One of the most compelling things you can do after asking a question is to genuinely listen to the answer. Stay curious, my friend.
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We’re slowly waking up to the fact that being busy is no measure of success.
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The essence of strategy is choosing what not to do. – Michael Porter
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The Strategic Question: if you’re saying Yes to this, what are you saying No to?
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What gets us into trouble is how quickly we commit, without fully understanding what we’re getting ourselves into or even why we’re being asked.
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To be on a quest is nothing more or less than to become an asker of questions. – Sam Keen
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When we take time and effort to generate knowledge and find an answer rather than just reading it, our memory retention is increased. – Josh Davis
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Adding ‘for you’ to the question takes it from the abstract to the personal, from the objective to the subjective. Now you’re helping people create new neural pathways.
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