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There are three parts to the formula: identifying the trigger, identifying the old habit, and defining the new behavior.
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An almost fail-safe way to start a chat that quickly turns into a real conversation is the question, ‘What’s on your mind?’
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Answers are closed rooms: and questions are open doors that invite us in.
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I know they seem innocuous. Three little words. But ‘And What Else?’ – the AWE Question – has magical properties.
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…remember that the first answer someone gives you is almost never the only answer, and it’s rarely the best answer.
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Ask the right questions if you’re going to find the right answers. – Vanessa Redgrave
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Stop offering up advice with a question mark attached?
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Adding ‘for you’ to a question helps people figure out the answers faster and more accurately.
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Stick to questions starting with ‘What’ and avoid questions starting with ‘Why.’
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…we’re bouncing around between three archetypal roles – Victim, Persecutor and Rescuer – each one as unhelpful and dysfunctional as the other.
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