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It’s amazing how this seemingly small thing – simply paying fierce attention to another, really asking, really listening, even during a brief conversation – can evoke such a wholehearted response.
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…the conversation is the relationship. One conversation at a time, you are building, destroying, or flatlining your relationships.
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Unconsciously, we end our conversations as soon as we initiate them, too afraid of what we might say or hear.
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…leave your expert, storyteller, fix-it hat at the door. Come into the conversation with empty hands. Bring nothing but yourself.
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Placement is about anchoring any conversation: defining exactly where you are and what’s about to happen next…
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Giving feedback is also one of the more difficult conversations leaders must have, one with the most potential for things to go wrong.
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Reflecting on your purpose before a conversation takes place will help you to be clearer during the conversation itself.
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As feedback conversations get more emotional or the stakes grow higher, it gets easier to hear evaluation, and tougher to hear the coaching.
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Oh, this isn’t just a regular conversation. I might be receiving feedback. I’d better get into my receiving-feedback mindset.
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…regardless of how the other person starts, you can use your turn to frame the conversation constructively and to offer an agenda.
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