Book Titles

The Other Side of Change
Who We Become When Life Makes Other Plans

By Maya Shankar

Year Published: 2026
ISBN-13: 978-0593713686
Categories: Change, Life, Planning

30 Quotes Found

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The Other Side of Change:

Rumination is a common symptom of conditions like depression and anxiety, but anyone can fall into its trap from time to time.

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The Other Side of Change:

…since rumination arises from zooming in too closely on a situation, one of the best ways to break free from it is to actively zoom out.

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The Other Side of Change:

Because there can be uncertainty about whether a situation is actually dangerous… it can be better, in the long run, to overreact than to underreact.

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The Other Side of Change:

When we’re stuck in rumination, a powerful first step is to stop and interrogate our assumptions.

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The Other Side of Change:

When we ruminate, we build a mental prison for ourselves. Each repetitive thought lays down another brick, constructing walls that block out the world.

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The Other Side of Change:

…neuroscience studies show that when we experience awe, activity in brain regions associated with self-focus decreases.

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The Other Side of Change:

When a change occurs in our lives, our instinct may be to resist the uncertainty it brings and try to resolve it.

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The Other Side of Change:

The strain that a major change puts on our relationships can often escape our notice initially.

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The Other Side of Change:

When change upends our lives, our first response may be to adopt a narrow view of our situation…

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The Other Side of Change:

…change doesn’t have to limit us; it can also present an opportunity to expand our lives in ways that we may not have thought possible.

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