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When a discussion is confronting real issues directly, it is never boring or irritating.
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When people are under stress and things are not going well for them, they need support, not more confrontation.
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In cases of highly successful change, people begin by confronting the issue.
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…the only thing worse than too much confrontation is no confrontation at all.
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If you want to confront the hard facts about yourself rather than wallowing in your protective delusions, try contrasting what you believe about yourself with how others see you.
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You absolutely cannot make a series of good decisions without first confronting the brutal facts.
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The very outcomes we fear if we confront someone’s behavior are practically guaranteed to show up if we don’t.
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All confrontation is a search for truth. Who owns the truth? Each of us owns a piece of it, and nobody owns all of it.
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Reserve your praise for specific behaviors and results deserving of celebration and congratulation. Do not use praise as a lead-in to a confrontation.
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What you say during a confrontation should be delivered not in a threatening manner, but simply as a clarification of why this is important.
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