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When we don’t feel we have the right to take up space in a meeting or conversation, or when we’re nervous, we rush and never leave a moment without words.
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…pauses between sentences connote confidence. They give you time to breathe so you can stay centered and so your breath can infuse your voice with more strength and volume.
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…women often turn to questions rather than statements because they are avoiding conflict, visibility, and claiming power.
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…the ‘double bind’ – the well-documented phenomenon that women are perceived as competent or likable, but not both.
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…once we deem someone competent, they have to do a a number of incompetent things for us to shift that assessment and see them as incompetent.
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A calling… is a longing to address a particular need or problem in the world.
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Following our callings is one of the most important and fulfilling ways we can play bigger.
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When we turn away from our callings, we’re turning away from our customized curriculum for personal growth.
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…the small number of hours spent on [callings] each week changes the way we experience every moment of our lives.
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Research shows that trying to motivate ourselves out of fear, guilt, and shame simply doesn’t work…
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