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The Progress Paradox:
…most men and women grow more anxious as they age: A lifetime of learning fears has made them proficient at anxiety.
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The Progress Paradox:
…the real danger of pursuit of stuff may be that most stuff is harmless, and therefore, utterly seductive.
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The Progress Paradox:
It may be that people grow steadily better off, yet seemingly no happier, because there is a baseline anxiety in all our hearts, and that anxiety is the fear of death.
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The Progress Paradox:
Look for unhappiness and you will surely find it, as unhappiness is a condition anyone can enter. Look for meaning and you may be tested.
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The Progress Paradox:
We should be grateful and forgiving… New research suggest gratitude and forgiveness are in our self-interest.
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The Progress Paradox:
…positive psychology finds that people who take a grateful attitude toward life, counting their blessings rather than inventorying their complaints, tend to be healthier, happier, and more successful than others.
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The Progress Paradox:
Staying married is one of the success secrets of the well-off.
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The Progress Paradox:
Forgiveness, gratitude, conviviality, and related mental states are active conditions that require effort to achieve. You can have these worldviews, but you’ve got to work at it.
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The Progress Paradox:
Seek happiness and you may or may not find it; seek grievances and you are guaranteed success.
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The Progress Paradox:
Both contemporary psychological research and age-old common sense suggest that a feeling of purpose improves a person’s experience of life.
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