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Demeaning jerks are victims of their own actions. They suffer career setbacks and, at times, humiliation.
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Fear can be a powerful motivator, driving people to avoid the sting of punishment and public humiliation.
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Indifference conveys the message to people that they don’t matter, at least not much. Being made to feel insignificant by being ignored is more difficult to deal with than being humiliated.
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The worst bosses not only make followers feel vulnerable and weak during hard times, they also demean, humiliate, and piss them off.
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No matter how necessary it may be, the people your actions hurt sometimes battle back – and may do so in mean-spirited, irrational, and humiliating ways.
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When we are not on a Trust Team, when we do not feel like we can express any kind of vulnerability at work, we often feel forced to lie, hide and fake to compensate.
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It only takes a second or two of feeling really bad – humiliated, gypped, overlooked, insulted, mistreated – to set off a lifelong feud.
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…hatred and the need for revenge originate in the humiliation, rage and betrayal we feel at lacking control. The fact that death is the ultimate proof of our lack of control.
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